tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post55685065670099188..comments2023-05-20T18:29:49.692+05:00Comments on Random Musings: UpsetScheherazadehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11049675238253960582noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-3605730808242073102009-05-03T15:13:00.000+06:002009-05-03T15:13:00.000+06:00You should keep this thing in mind that at older a...You should keep this thing in mind that at older age, people become dominating, short-tempered and their nature changes to something that we dislike. I'm taking example of my own parents and my grandfather. I'm 100% sure that the attitude of your father-in-law is not specifically targeted at u that u are his daughter-in-law and he should exploit it. All other people around him may also have noticed his behavior. His friends, colleagues, wife, children etc. The first thing u should do is to forget that he is your father-in-law. Just suppose for a second that he is your own father. How would u react if your father had been trying to be bossy and dominating? I'm giving u my own example that my father is. The first thing I do is that no chance ever comes that he has to show his "power". I try to avoid at all costs. If it's unavoidable, I only ignore & tolerate. In your heart & mind, just don't take seriously whatever he expects or say anything. Crack jokes about him in your mind :D But keep this limited to only your mind. Show them apparently that u are seriously taking his things. At last, remember one thing. You are grown-up and you know very well what is wrong and what is right. Do whatever your feel right and don't do whatever u feel wrong but if there is something wrong and your in-laws feel it's right, don't argue/fight with them but still don't do that thing. Let your creative ideas tell u how u can do that :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-5626243719174877012009-04-03T03:53:00.000+05:002009-04-03T03:53:00.000+05:00In fact, in-laws are out-laws!. In any country. in...In fact, in-laws are out-laws!. In any country. in any community, They must be taight lesson!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-36620091777908562662009-02-28T11:36:00.000+05:002009-02-28T11:36:00.000+05:00Abdul Sami is very right, be yourself but obviousl...Abdul Sami is very right, be yourself but obviously with respect. I always call Southeast Asian married women selfishly selfish, they are selfish but for their husband their kids etc. they don't really take care of themselves. Sacrifices after sacrifices and then at the end no gains, may be if at all acknowledgment from husband or in-laws late late in life when it does not really matters anymore. Be respectful to in-laws but don't let them take your rights and never let anyone step on your toes. Best of luckMerchant of Emotions.. "I don't sell, I barter"https://www.blogger.com/profile/02970813892739141926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-36897472063294834352009-02-28T08:19:00.000+05:002009-02-28T08:19:00.000+05:00Being nice is a good thing I am still away from th...Being nice is a good thing <BR/>I am still away from this in-laws thing but in life when some body tries to take my niceness as my weakness, I better make him understand that being nice doesn't mean that I have closed my eyes/senses"<BR/>Adapt the way if it’s valid in your scenario too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-43915690068726912042009-02-27T21:48:00.000+05:002009-02-27T21:48:00.000+05:00yes ur solution is a good one but at the end of th...yes ur solution is a good one but at the end of the day in-laws will be in-laws, whether you are a nice person or a bad person, it is bound to happen <BR/><BR/>good luckWritingsForLifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15222395399977749183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-831057523603420102009-02-27T00:52:00.000+05:002009-02-27T00:52:00.000+05:00i may be ... but that does not mean that wat i sai...i may be ... but that does not mean that wat i said does not hold any weight !Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11742364931896059935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-28318465740561804752009-02-27T00:46:00.000+05:002009-02-27T00:46:00.000+05:00u know what u r an asshole abdul samiu know what u r an asshole abdul samiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-73680776106469313242009-02-26T00:12:00.000+05:002009-02-26T00:12:00.000+05:00being nice is different...jus learn to put yoursel...being nice is different...<BR/><BR/>jus learn to put yourself first... learn to be selfish... and learn to 'not feel guilty' at being selfish...<BR/><BR/>its a good way to live... <BR/><BR/>wish u the best x !Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11742364931896059935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-5973555647562785862009-02-25T23:54:00.000+05:002009-02-25T23:54:00.000+05:00Just be yourself and this is the best policy.Just be yourself and this is the best policy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-748054845612454925.post-19811965523458044022009-02-25T23:17:00.000+05:002009-02-25T23:17:00.000+05:00oh i totally know about trying to be nice to in-la...oh i totally know about trying to be nice to in-laws and trying to stay cool.. when they are driving you nuts.. and dominate you..<BR/>your niceness is viewed as your weaknes... :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com