Friday, January 22, 2010

For the sake of children

Parents can be such a drag especially of unhappy families. I know that i have written about this before but this is something which has impacted my life in such a massive way that i cannot help but talk about it. The after affects of my parents' marriage have reverberated all throughout my childhood into my married life. I think some people are just not meant to be together but in our society, especially of our parents generation divorce was a social taboo. So these complete opposites would stick together 'for the sake of children' and in the process play havoc with the emotional state of being of their children. I think bad marriages especially the arranged ones coupled with the social stigma of divorce create the perfect environment for emotionally damaged children. It says a lot about our society and our self-destructive social mores.

6 comments:

Id it is said...

Having brought children into the world, parents owe them a happy and secure childhood, and two unhappy individuals can definitely not do this! Why hold on to the dying embers of a relationship that has ceased to be....

Aasim said...

You know what makes life beautiful? its not pleasures, its sacrifice

aasim said...

how many kids have you got?

Anonymous said...

What u said is 100% correct, there are many couples holding together just for the sake of society and for the ppl around them.

-Akash

Aasim said...

And digital gadgets like emails, internet, cell phones and web cams are all effecting out marital lives.

Anonymous said...

What about u? What r u doing? You r also not happy in ur marriage. why don't u leave ur husband. u r such a
hypocratic person. @aasim, if u r so much against internet, mobile, etc, just stop using it. Thanks.